Kuma-chan's Jungle - Another sad thing to add to a sad day....

Kuma-chan's Jungle

I hear whispers of far off lands and can't help but try to reach them...

Another sad thing to add to a sad day....

10th-Jun-2008 10:48 pm

Panda-chan, I'm borrowing your hypothetical situations.

Let's say Person A had friends who were very nice to her, did all sorts of things with her, etc. Could become best friends.
Then Person B and Person C decide to no longer be friends because of a fight.
Person A has to decide between them.

What should she have done?

In the end, she chose to not pick one friend over the other, and try to repair their friendship. The thing is, Persons B and C for some reason decided to no longer be A's friend. And took all of her friends with them.

Leaving her alone.

When she decided to try and make new friends, real ones (for maybe the last ones were not real), she made a couple of other really good ones. Who did everything with her too.

And then, she suddenly realized that those friends are actually a bit spoiled and bratty, and they left her too.

Leaving her alone again.

I kinda know what this feels like and am trying to show her that there are real good friends. Except, she's sorta worried that any new friends will leave her, and therefore has a harder time making real, long friends. She's fine with making a five-minute, let's-do-this-together friend. But other than that, she's sorta scared about making new friends. And she hides this by being a little brash and tactless.

Which scares people off.

...Any suggestions?

Fill me in::betrayal, broken friendships, dilemma, friends, loss
The magical land::Roof of the house
Colour of the spirit::depressed
The beat of my heart::She fears if she cries that first tear, the tears will not stop raining down

Thoughts on the kennel?

11th-Jun-2008 03:02 am (UTC)

japanesebread

D<

This sort of happened to me. I mean, people always leave me along the way. But I've got awesome friends now.

I'd never give them away for anything.

Sorry to say, I don't have a clue as to what to do. Perhaps you could be her real friend? As I know you are, by posting this up.

!) (You go, Kuma!)

11th-Jun-2008 03:08 am (UTC)

smakn

Ahhh..

I'm trying to be. Slight problems are that we go to different schools. I hope that it's enough to be her real friend.

(she worries me sometimes. apparently she has a lot of 'fake' people in her classes, and she gets ignored.
..I hope she doesn't do anything too desperate.
Like my cousin was going to do...)

Thanks for listening...

11th-Jun-2008 03:10 am (UTC)

japanesebread

I'm sure she appreciates it. !)

(that's not a good thing. I don't really like 'fake' people because they're trying to be someone they're not.

You mean Riku132? Is she your sister or your cousin?)

No problem! You're my friend, aren't you?

11th-Jun-2008 03:13 am (UTC)

smakn

...I think she does too. (SHE GAVE ME A HUG. I'M SO HAPPY ABOUT THAT. I THINK IT'S SLOWLY WORKING)

(Riku132 is my sister. She also has a string of bad friends..(they all seem to have left her for popular kids. She hates being alone, so she tries to tag along with my friends too or to try and keep up with those friends. It doesn't work usually, and she sometimes comes to me crying...)
...
There seems to be a pattern here...)

YEP. FRIENDS. *glows* That's such a nice word...

11th-Jun-2008 03:50 am (UTC)

japanesebread

:D Good for you.

Oh. I'm kinda sorry about your sister. I felt bad about the angry!mob attacking her, but I wanted to defend Kiki and you.

But I don't think you ought to worry about her, I don't mind giving her a change :)

♥♥♥
(YES> AND YOU HAVE YET TO ADD ME.)

11th-Jun-2008 10:19 am (UTC)

smakn

OOOPSSS. I FORGOT.

LJ SORTA OVERFLOWED MY INBOX.

An angry!mob? ...Oh dear....A LARGE GROUP OF ANGER MOBBERS?
...I think I need to talk to her. Before something like this happens again. Or she feels TOO discouraged.
..I'll try not to worry about her. But it sorta comes with being the big sister...(That's good. I think she'll slowly develop better people skills now)

...I'M GOING TO ADD YOU. NOW.

11th-Jun-2008 04:13 pm (UTC)

fisah

CAN I BE JOUR FRIEND? <3

Oooh. I hate that situation, actually. I tend to make fake friends as well, but thankfully, I've learned to discern between the fakers and the real people. Real friends are hard to find, and they're few and far between.

I feel really sorry for her, it's kind of dumb to say don't give up and be discouraged but I get the feeling that she's at that point now. I think it's just a matter of being a bit more outgoing and learning more people skills. Don't be too trusting from the get-go, that's an issue I tend to have >.>

I hope you've been well, bb. I've finally decided to clean up my lj and start using it again, lulz.

12th-Jun-2008 01:26 am (UTC)

smakn

YOU HAVE YOUR LIVEJOURNAL NOW?
..*proceeds to attack your account*

...Yeah...There are a lot of fake people...
...
*thinks* I HOPE I'M NOT ONE. *prays*

(I'm too trusting too. That is how I've lost two pencil-cases worth of stuff. People "borrow" from me and then don't return...D<)

...I'M FINE. I'M AN AGENT. WHOOT!
*now goes to account*

Want to leave a pawprint too?

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