Panda-chan, I'm borrowing your hypothetical situations.

Let's say Person A had friends who were very nice to her, did all sorts of things with her, etc. Could become best friends.
Then Person B and Person C decide to no longer be friends because of a fight.
Person A has to decide between them.

What should she have done?

In the end, she chose to not pick one friend over the other, and try to repair their friendship. The thing is, Persons B and C for some reason decided to no longer be A's friend. And took all of her friends with them.

Leaving her alone.

When she decided to try and make new friends, real ones (for maybe the last ones were not real), she made a couple of other really good ones. Who did everything with her too.

And then, she suddenly realized that those friends are actually a bit spoiled and bratty, and they left her too.

Leaving her alone again.

I kinda know what this feels like and am trying to show her that there are real good friends. Except, she's sorta worried that any new friends will leave her, and therefore has a harder time making real, long friends. She's fine with making a five-minute, let's-do-this-together friend. But other than that, she's sorta scared about making new friends. And she hides this by being a little brash and tactless.

Which scares people off. 

...Any suggestions?

I am going to write in this account more (and about things that are important. To me. but that's not the point.)

...So, anyways, I have more friends! 

a) Ren/Extra Ren/Renaliner/the-girl-who-is-perhaps-my-first-friend-in-ffn/lj: She is an amazing authoress (...this word reminds me of the word lioness...). She's funny, and her stories never fail to make me happy. everything makes me happy, but we will ignore that fact.

b) Kikoruchan: she is also an awesome writer. Funny. I don't know her to well yet (I found her recently) and was immensely shocked when she added me as a friend. me as a friend (life is too good for me).

c) Panandrea (I will fix the spelling later, but I'm sorta in a hurry now): who also randomly added me as a friend. 

...And that's all.
...
It isn't a lot, (but it is soo much to me).  Either way, I feel happy. And Lucky. And be jealous